Private Lives

I'm always so intrigued when I hear about actresses, especially disney actresses having to apoligize because they sometimes act their age, which is usually over 18. Vaness Hudgins had to apoligize for sending sexy pictures of herself to her boyfriend. My question is, why do private lives matter so much? I doubt the 8 year old watching HSM is going to hear about that. I was freaking weird as a kid and I never watched the news. If the Murder She Wrote star had had a sex tape out there, I never would have heard about it, so why do people have to apoligize for being adults and having sex/getting plastic surgery, etc.

I'm going to be honest, I love Jack White and Matthew Gray Gubler. But I don't know shiite about these guys except for that they're hot and talented because that kind of news doesn't really affect my life. I mean, I can dream, but unless MGG reads this, decides some 15 year old chick is his soulmate and can wait a few years, I doubt I'm ever going to meet him, let alone GETWITH the guy. (Jack's married and around mid 30's early 40's, ew when I look at it in perspective, he just plays a lwa in one of my books that stay in my head until I get really bored. Well, his looks were the inspiration for the lwa anyway.) Matthew I love you. As the weird teen who sadly identifies with Dr. Reid.

Anyway!

So when I hear author Judy Mays was given an ultimatum of epic busybody proportions, the kind perpetrated by women who've only gotten it missionary style as ordained by 'teh bibleh!' instead of the fun way ordained by...everybody..., I was shocked. Mays writes erotic or romantic type novels. Not exactly light material, but it's fun. Sexy. Shapeshifter slash human fun sexy stuff. She teaches students as well. Let me make this clear; I don't care or want to know what my teachers do at home. Could not care less. In fact I would prefer I never ever find out. Because my teachers stay teachers. If I see them outside of school it's awkward and we have nothing to speak about except my impending initiation into the crazy people who diagnose other crazy people crew. If one of them turned out to be an erotic writer, hell, I probably own one of their books, that's what would make it awkward.("Oh, Ms. so-and-so, the...book was...good, I really liked- ok I'm leaving here's my report kthnxbai ma'am.") This woman who 'exposed' Mays claims that Mays will either be looking at her son, or her son will be thinking of the sex scenes he probably hasn't nor will ever read. The kid actually came to his teachers' defense, no shocker there, ey students!?

For the record Mays is married and has kids apparently older than her students. Also, come to think of it, if you didn't want your apparently easily influenced kid to think about it, why'd you bring it up in the FIRST FRIGGEN PLACE, lady? That insecure?

Interesting how freedom of speech comes to mean freedom of whatever we want you to say. You get no private life. You get no devious, sexual behavior. You get no kinky whatever the hell YOU do in YOUR bedroom in YOUR house that doesn't affect ANYBODY, because we don't like it.

Well the school board gave Ms. Mays an ultimatum*; you can write your books, or you can quit teaching. You can't have both. Like it really matters. You're forcing her to give up something that she loves, there's no way she can win! Reminds me of the people who say gays shouldn't teach kids, they'd be ogling us! I sincerely doubt the lesbian teacher finds a 15 year old straight chick with braces and acne and a bad attitude sexy, but people can be incredibly stupid and incredibly reaching for a reason to be a bigot! Same thing happened with Mays. She wrote sexy stories, she MUST be sexually deviant. A pedophile even, although none of her books or any evidence shows there to be pedophilia. And why would she even want some from your awkward inexperienced kid? Jeesh. Thinking about/wanting Sex=/=pedophilia, woman who is so sexually frustrated she needs to deny to herself that people the world over are having some faaaantabulous smex RIGHT NOW. AS I TYPE. YOUR MIND HAS BEEN BLOWN.

Sickens me, why private lives need to be what parents think your private life should be. Even though it's YOURS. Ya know. Like a boss and all that.

*Ms Mays wasn't fired, the whole thing was dropped because people realized sex in written form is not the devil, AHEM Mrs Apple, aka the person who clued us in...

More info here: http://nancyholzner.wordpress.com/2011/04/27/support-judy-mays/

http://hillarymonahan.com/2011/05/03/heres-to-you-judy-mays/

http://blushingbooks.wordpress.com/2011/04/28/in-support-of-judy-mays/

http://www.savvyauthors.com/vb/content.php?1115-Illegal-to-write-erotica-in-Pennsylvania

http://culture.bitchbuzz.com/the-problem-with-literary-slut-shaming.html

http://www.castlesandguns.com/2011/04/hide-your-children-romance-writers-in.html

LOLWHUT?

Continuing this weeks y'all can suck it theme, I'd like to update. One, me and Pip from al b damned Im-ed. And had a real conversation. I know I'm tooting my own horn here, but what. Do you and a member from your favorite band IM? No. You do not.
Unless your favorite band is Al B Damned.

I also got to see Rock Of Ages with my dad as an early BIRFDAY! present. It was indeed face meltingly awesome. And although the seats weren't near the stage like at CATS, ours were in the balcony. And were bitching.

Suck it People

Just so y'all know, I'm connected. To many famous people. Including Al. B. Damned.
Recently though, I ment Al Franken. THE Al Franken, of SNL and democratic fame. We were in Minnesota, and off of our plane and I WAS OVER IT. OVER IT!
Seriously, I hate traveling with more than one person. If it's 4 other people, I'm apt to commit matricide.
So I was being a grumpy bitch, I mean brat, and just generally growling at strangers when mom was like, 'Ky! It's Al Franken!'
Then I got nice.
What now! I met a senator! Ha ha ha!

Perfumes/cosmetics Kody Loves!

Black Phoenix Alchemy Lab Perfumes

-Brisgamen perfume
-Dance of Death perfume
-Danse Macabre perfume
-Embalming Fluid perfume
-Epitaph perfume
-Jazz Funeral Perfume
-Zombi perfume
-Absinthe perfume
-Blood Perfume
-Jack perfume
-Wrath perfume
-Bat perfume
-Cicuta perfume
-silenti perfume
-Black lily perfume
-blood countess perfume

Victoria's Secret
-black velvet amber blackberry perfume

The Body Shop
-Aloe calming toner
-Tea tree blemish gel
-tea tree blemish fade night lotion

Urban Decay
-Deslick oil control setting makeup spray
-Deslick in a tube mattifying gel

Lancome
-La Base Pro face primer

M.A.C
-Oil control lotion
-Nocturnelle nail polish
-Nightfall nail polish
-Mac studio fx powder foundation

Sourpuss
-Bloodbath zombie zen lotion
-bloodbath candy corn lip embalm

Manic Panic
-Black widow lashes
-vampyre's veil pressed powder ( Candlelight/starlight/moonlight)

Physician's Formula
-Mineral Wear Green correcting primer
-Concealer Twins 2-in-1 Green/fair concealer

Rimmel London
-Day 2 Night mascara
-Sexy Curves Waterproof mascara

Neutrogena
-Oil free acne wash cleansing cloths
-Oil free acne wash redness soothing cream cleanser
-Ultra sheer dry touch sunblock SPF 100+

Lacarmina perfume giveaway!

I'm such a giveaway whore. One of my FB friends, jack-of-all-trades Lacarmina is doing the Cherry Bomb perfume giveaway. She's holding her contest at her blog, see my awesome linking skills below.

I think it's hilarious that even though I'm a jeans and leather jacket kinda girl, I love perfume, skirts and makeup. Jus saying. If you remember the blog post for my b-day list, you'll know this well. Anyway, check out her contest, she's an awesome girl, the best spokesmodel for us goths.


http://www.lacarmina.com/blog/2011/05/cherry-bomb-killer-perfume-giveaway-rock-n-roll-goth-punk-perfumes-heart-charms-atelier-pierrot-lolita-dress/

or just check out her facebook, Lacarmina!

Play Writing Progress

So, today as I go through the new Sixx:A.M. album trying to find filler for my play, which is still untitled, and I found a song Skin. Goes like this:

Paint yourself a picture
Of what you wish you looked like
Maybe then they just might
Feel an ounce of your pain
Come into focus
Step out of the shadows
It's a losing battle
There's no need to be ashamed
Cause they don't even know you
All they see is scars
They don't see the angel
Living in your heart
Let them find the real you
Buried deep within
Let them know with all you got
That you are not
You are not your skin
When they start to judge you
Show them your true colors
And do unto others
As you'd have done to you
Just rise above this
Kill them with your kindness
Ignorance is blindness
They're the ones that stand to lose

Reminds me a lot of how my life has been, and I wish I had been able to do this song for the recital. As it is, I think it will be the song James sings at R and Amiee's graves before he goes and buys heroin to dull his pain. But the song Live Forever has yet to be put in, and we still have 5 more songs to fit into James's storyline. At this point, it's a matter of seeing which songs are James viewing himself as the monster he's become and his actual experiences

B.day/xmas list

This will be the xmas/birthday list for the next 4 years or so.

Hot Topic Giftcard
Sephora giftcard
Flat Iron
Pore-fessional Primer
Lancome La Base Pro Primer
M.A.C Studio Fix Powder Plus Foundation in N3
Simpsons Seasons 6, 10, 11, 12
Barnes N Noble Gift card
*Sourpuss Batty Beki Dress
*Infectious Threads 426 Spiderweb Creeper shoes
*Infectious Threads Long sleeved slits top
*Kreepsville 666 I Love Halloween T-shirt
*Sourpuss Horror/Monster/Terror tie sleeves top
*Sourpuss Dressed To Kill Bat Skirt
*Iron Fist Wolfbeater/Bela's Dead hoodie
* Too Fast Eyebat pencil skirt
*Sourpuss Monster Gal pinup
*Sourpuss Killer Tarantula cardigan
* Sourpuss Dressed to Kill bat shrug
*Sourpuss Bloodbath Candy Corn lip balm
*Sourpuss Bloodbath Zombie Zen lotion
*Sourpuss Horror/Monster/zombie rhinestone necklace
*Sourpuss webbed clutch purse
*Sourpuss Monster faux fur scarf
*Sourpuss bat attack/green-black/orange-black/spiderweb socks
*Sourpuss spiderweb umbrella
*Kreepsville 666 Daddy's Ghoul Tee
*Kreepsville 666 Stripey bats/ dead girl socks
*Kreepsville electrocutie/I'm with spooky tee
*Sourpuss hearse bath mat
*Sourpuss Monster mortuary/rise from your grave/ monster parts mugs
*Kat Von D Angeles perfume

* means that its a special website, Sourpussclothing.com, Kreepsville 666 clothing, Infectiousthreads.com, and Toofastonline.com

You can see why this will last me 4 years. ^^